It is strange that some people they just loose their control…control over their anger ..control over being over powering…they love to hide the facts with their loved ones and then when confronted start yelling and shouting …may be they were not ready..may be they don’t want to listen..may be they thought they would hide the truth forever and their so called trustworthy would never disclose…Such people just want to shout and if we observe it closely the person who listens more is the one who is more adjustable ..someone who is having more patience…someone who knows and understands the value of being peaceful…it does not always mean that the other person is afraid of you…may be he or she is just trying to remain calm so that he or she can put across their view points in a much clearer way ..may be he or she wants to rephrase …but does it always happen.
The angry person would love to just shout shout shout to shut the mouth of the other person and will just try to be loud and more loud …because he doesn’t want to face the truth…he would not let the other person speak..is this what we say a mature behavior …is this what we are setting an example for our young ones..what r we teaching them..I know we can not be their idol forever but at least what we can pass on to our future generation is calmness and being little patient…I know we all are human beings and we tend to outburst at times and at times regret thereafter..but what if this becomes part of our daily behaviour..how do u think ur closed ones would react..they would prefer to hide things from you rather than being open…we as adults are fathers or mothers ..what do you think our kids r learning..would they ever become close to us..would they ever becomes “friends” with us…Bet me on this never..Think again the next time you get over hyper …
